I am not looking for dofollow links.
I think that's where most of the people are going wrong.
You go to a website owner and tell him/her, "You did an article about us with no follow. Can you remove the nofollow?"
And he/she will ignore your email.
I take a different approach.
I'm trying to figure out why the website owner had us on their site in the first place.
Typically, it's because we added some value to the content — data, a quote, or a story angle that was good enough for the website owner's content.
So, when I reach back out to him/her again, I add even more value.
A new story, another angle, more relevant information for his/her readers.
Once I've built real relationship capital with this website owner, I can casually bring up the fact that he or she previously added a nofollow link to our name.
"Hey, I noticed you put a nofollow link on my name last time. We've really helped you guys, so would you be able to update it to a dofollow link?"
At this point in the game, he/she knows I'm not just trying to find ways to increase my page rank by getting link updates from other websites.
I've really provided them with value.
This is how you treat it as a relationship instead of a transaction.
Everyone else spams website owners looking for link updates.
These emails get deleted.However, once you've clearly shown someone the value you can provide, they will often give you a dofollow link without you having to ask.People know that nofollow links were implemented by Google because of attempts to manipulate search engines.Webmasters respect that.However, if you've earned the right to be trusted by a webmaster as legitimate and to provide quality content, they will typically give you a dofollow link.